Dennis the Menace (1959-63), the sitcom adaptation of Hank Ketcham's comic strip, was before my time and rarely rerun, so I have never seen it. But I knew Jay North's Dennis, a gangly blond wearing a striped shirt and white overalls with a famously breathless "golly gee" tone (acquired when his director told the eight-year old to "act younger"). For the first generation of Baby Boomers, he became the iconic Dennis the Menace, even though he was no menace -- his character was kind, helpful, sweet-tempered, even "square," an object of ridicule when the Boomers grew into cynical teenagers.
Maya (1966) and spin-off tv series (1967-68). He loved the location shoots in India; he and his costar, Sajid Khan, became lifelong friends. And he was proud of his performance. But teen idol fame eluded him.
So he tried to distance himself from Dennis by playing mature, adult roles.
The Gay Connection:
Sal Mineo was directing Fortune and Men's Eyes at the Coronet Theater in Los Angeles, and playing Rocky, who rapes and abuses the naive Smitty (Don Johnson). When Don Johnson was hired to do The Magic Garden of Stanley Sweetheart (1970), Jay North auditioned to replace him, hooking up with Sal Mineo in the process. He rehearsed for several weeks, but the play closed before he could perform.
In 1972, Jay played the lead in a touring company of Norman, Is That You?, about Jewish parents (Hans Conreid, Fritzi Burr) who discover that their son is gay.
"teen has sex with older woman" genre. And his acting career was over.
In the 1990s, he became involved with Paul Petersen's A Minor Consideration, dedicated to ameliorating working conditions for child stars. Today Jay works as a prison guard in Florida, but he often attends conventions, where he is always happy to talk to the many older gay men who had a crush on him in 1966.
There's a gay dating story about Jay North on Tales of West Hollywood.