My Date with Andrew Lloyd Webber, I didn't remember the name of the guy we met at the Broadway Cares Flea Market, who invited us to the party in Brooklyn Heights -- cruising Tom Wopat and getting tacos with Andrew Lloyd Webber sort of drowned out everything else.
I asked Yuri, but he didn't remember, either ("We just kissed and fondled a little -- I wasn't that into him").
So I looked up the Broadway stars who were at that flea market, and by process of elimination came up with John Benjamin Hickey.
I thought that he was much older than me, but he is actually 2 1/2 years younger. He has been on Broadway since the early 1990s, with roles in several important gay-themed plays, such as Love! Valour! Compassion! and Cabaret.
In 2003-2004, It's All Relative, about the daughter of a liberal gay couple married to the son of a conservative heterosexual couple.
In 2010-2013, The Big C, about a woman with cancer, as her eccentric, anti-establishment, bisexual brother (left).
Not a bodybuilder, but a nice solid physique.
His partner is Boomerrey Richman, writer and producer of gay-positive tv series like Wings, Frasier, and Modern Family.