Aug 17, 2016
When Does Cuddling Just Mean Cuddling?
Lots of Grindr profiles, especially from younger guys, specify that they want to "Cuddle." I'm all for cuddling, especially at the end of the act, so I figured they meant "Cuddling afterwards...."
I had been trying to land this guy for nearly a year. He was a theater major at the University, short, stocky, with black hair and dark brown eyes. We chatted and chatted, discussing the minutiae of theatrical performances. I even went to the execrable Titanic because he asked me to.
But I couldn't seal the deal. It was like trying to coax a skittish little squirrel to accept a nut.
Eventually I got busy with other things, and turned my attention to guys who didn't take quite so much coaxing, and didn't talk to him online for months.
Then I saw on Grindr that he was 1200 feet away. He had moved to a new apartment about 3 blocks away. I said "Now there's no excuse for not inviting me over for cuddling."
A few days later he took me up on it. Out of nowhere: "I'm tired, I had a long day, I want to cuddle."
The full post, with nude photos and sexual content, is on Tales of West Hollywood.