Mar 8, 2017
The Joy of Pecs: G-Rated Version
You touch his chest.
Specifically the top of the pectoralis major, that flat area above the nipple, over his heart.
The chest is not an intimate zone, like the face or the crotch, so if you made a mistake and he's not interested, he will not be offended.
But it is not a "friendly" zone, like the hand or the shoulder. The only reason to touch it is to let him know that you find him physically attractive, that you want a date or a hookup.
When you're talking to a pair or a group, it clarifies which one you're interested in.
There are occasional circumstances where the first touch is somewhere else.
If you managed to arrange a first date without a touch, you'll probably begin the intimacy by putting your arm around him rather than touching his chest.
At sex parties and bathhouses, you can sometimes drop to your knees immediately and get to work, but even there, a chest-touch is usually recommended, just to make sure he's up for it.
You can tell a lot about his physique by touching his chest, even if he's fully clothed. Are the muscles big or small, hard or soft? Is the skin tense or elastic?
More after the break.
Can you feel chest hair?
Of course, it works better if they lift their shirts, so you can see as well as touch.
Even after you move on to the more advanced kissing and fondling, the chest has an undeniable appeal.
Gay men have similar coming-of-age stories. Remember the first time you lay your hand flat against a cute boy's chest?
Or the first time you saw a guy with his shirt off in unexpected circumstances?
The X-rated version of this article is on Tales of West Hollywood.