NYSocBoy's Beefcake and Bonding: Harry Jowsey: New Zealand reality star, Boyfriend Material Podcaster, Onlyfans model, "Call me gay."

Jun 12, 2025

Harry Jowsey: New Zealand reality star, Boyfriend Material Podcaster, Onlyfans model, "Call me gay."

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22-year old New Zealand-based fitness model Harry Jowsey first appeared on screen on Heartbreak Island, then gained international fame on the Netflix reality series Too Hot to Handle (2020). It was based on the Seinfeld episode "The Contest": hetero hunks and babes had to live in close quarters and remain "Master of their Domain" or "Queens of the Castle." Harry won, and split the $100,000 prize with the other winners. His "smouldering s*xual tension" with some of the ladies spun him into 4 million social media followers.

And several podcasts. In Boyfriend Material, Harry and his guests give humorous relationship advice based upon his experience of hooking up with about 200 women.

It is notable for the viral term Boyfriend D*ck, based upon Harry's description of his: No too big, not too small, looks nice, gets the job done.

More reality tv followed: Match Me If You Can, The Amazing Race Australia, Dancing with the Stars, and Perfect Match.

Plus the upcoming movie The Wrong Paris (2025): a woman joins a reality tv show in "Paris," thinking that she's going to France, but it's the one in Texas. The women outnumber the men in the cast three to one, but there are a few hunks: Pierson Fode, Torrance Coombs, Kaden Connors (n*de on RG Beefcake and Boyfriends), and William Wilder.

Harry seems to be veering back and forth between ally and homophobe.

In September 2021, youtuber and trans activist Nikki Dragun included a picture of him in her video. Fans got upset: "You hooked up with a dude, man!"

Harry had assumed that the relationship would be private, but now that it was open, he explained, Nikki Dragun is a woman. Trans or cisgender, what's the difference.

Sounds like an ally. except in October 2021, on his Tap It podcast, he complained that "some f*ggot" was trying to hook up with him. He was referring to makeup youtuber James Charles. Later he apologized, and stated that he supported the LGBT community.

In 2022, Harry demonstrated his support by posting some photos wearing a dress, and fans again became irate: "That's wrong, man."

Boyfriend material after the break

About the Boyfriend D*ck: one of his previous girlfriends called it "gigantic," but another complained that it was too small, so in 2023 Harry started an OnlyFans page so we could decide for ourselves.

We could decide on his backside, too.

After about six months, he closed the page, stating that he wanted to concentrate on his acting. Same old story: I'm not just a pretty face, I'm a serious actor. Well, you're the one who started the Boyfriend D*ck phrase.

In 2024, Harry started a relationship with model and record company executive Carter Gregory, who has previously dated Victoria Villaroel and Noah Beck. Naturally fans were upset: "You're hugging and kissing a dude! That's so cringe!"

On Boyfriend Material, Harry notes that he's been attracted to men all along. He's wanted to do things, but never had the courage to act on his desires before. Should he be classified as gay?

Harry: "Sure, why not. Call me gay."

Carter: "You are!"

After two hundred women? Sounds bi or pan.

But remember Sleazy Guy on Seinfeld: "You make a lot of man friends. You know who's a man? Charlie here, he's a man. You know who else? Me. I'm a man."

Are you free Tuesday night, Harry?